Befriend is dedicated to walking people home to their true selves and community.
I began my career in psychotherapy with a deep interest in neuroscience. In my early 20s, after years of ill health (starting aged 9), I began to suffer severe symptoms. After seeing over 45 specialists, the trauma of misdiagnosis, and losing functionality completely, I decided to choose an alternative route to save my own life.
I recovered from multiple tick-borne infections, mould illness (CIRS), autoimmune disease, anxiety, chemical and food sensitivity, fibromyalgia, chronic fatigue syndrome, interstitial cystitis, heavy metal toxicity, and complex post-traumatic stress (cptsd). My passion to help others heal led me to hone my skills through further accredited professional courses. My approach is bespoke to each client and is a combination of depth psychology, internal family systems, limbic system/brain re-training, inner relationship focusing, somatic experiencing, poylvagal theory, attachment Theory, and Hakomi (body oriented therapy). I also utilise emotionally expressive writing, art, meditation, movement, visualisation and laughter to help reconnect people to their innately whole mind-body-being.
Having attended 6 advanced and 4 advanced follow-up workshops led by DrJoe Dispenza as well as assisting, I am very comfortable weaving this into my teaching if clients wish.
My work harnesses health rather than focusing on illness or trying to get rid of symptoms. I do not see this work as a ‘treatment’ for ‘sickness’ but as a discovery of what physical, emotional or social factors block the innate ability to recover, which will be unique for each person. Clients find this collaborative process empowering and fun. As sessions progress, clients improve their emotional and physiological resilience along with gaining an increased capacity to feel joy and appreciation for themselves and their life. My clients range from CEOs dealing with burnout to patients recovering from decades-long chronic illnesses.
I live in Portland, Oregon in the US. I am a keen tennis player, a dog mum to two mini Aussies, a student for life of yoga, love goats, and am a total bookworm. I am introverted and I am a highly sensitive person (HSP), so I champion ways of moving through the world that allow HSP's to be who we are with confidence and ease. I believe that a successful life is one of growth, community, honouring nature, and an open heart; not the capitalist definition of success. I am allergic to bullshit and to taking myself too seriously. My dream is a little homestead with goats, donkeys, and many rescue dogs where people can come and stay for retreats and healing with the land.
The moderators of the community are former clients of mine, so this is truly a grow-from-the-inside organisation. They will introduce themselves inside the community. We work as a non-hierarchical team where there is space for all our differences and gifts.
If you are called to contribute to the community to teach, help, or in any other way, please contact me. I love to hold up people’s gifts and facilitate them being shared. I am also happy to offer mentorship to those who want to do this but feel nervous. Courage is contagious!
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